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The Simple Things- Our Weekend

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I am so content today and I couldn't figure out why. Now I know. We didn't do a darn thing over the weekend! Well, we functioned- but nothing "exciting" was on the agenda for once. This is very unusual and typically a struggle for myself and for my kiddos to get through these "boring" weekends. I have passed on my "I'm bored" gene to both of them. No bueno.

 This weekend was so simple yet so amazingly freeing. I noticed that the kids actually played together and did not ask me for one single thing that costs money- well except the usual "can we go to Magic Mountain? " request that is 99.9% of the time denied immediately & was denied again ha. I am sorry but that place causes an immediate anxiety attack for me! 

We watched movies, played, talked, ate, watched movies, played, talked, ate, wash and repeat. It was fantastic! I woke up today with a sense of calmness and so rested- and I noticed both kids did too. Made me think about the simple things in life and how I need to appreciate each moment more than I do. I am one of those people that is always thinking ahead, planning something, worrying freaking out about upcoming events/meetings/life in general...and it just isn't necessary. I am vowing to have more of these simple times in my life... not only is it beneficial for me to CHILL OUT once in awhile..but it teaches a crucial lesson to my kids that life is not a freaking party all the time! Boring can be good for the soul. Really really good. 

x,
Hillary

What have you learned today?

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Learning... a broad topic. We learn something new every day. Let's start with today. 

Today I learned that my 5 year old can not tolerate me looking at her while she does cartwheels at gymnastics class... who knew?!? I learned very quickly when she screamed in front of all of the other parents (whose children were happy go lucky today and made my little diva really stand out as "that" kid..) that I should "read on your phone book (aka Kindle) and DO NOT WATCH ME MOMMMM!" Lesson learned. 

I have also learned so many serious lessons through my life experiences as we all have, and I believe I have learned who I am because of some not so fun challenges... which does make me believe that everything happens for a reason & that there is a plan for all of us. I feel that we have a lot of learning to do before the puzzle pieces of our lives are all in the correct spots. 

I am taking time to think about all that I have learned throughout the different time periods in my life...and how lucky I am that I am healthy & happy and able to continue to learn the lessons that are making me grow stronger as a person.  I had a "aha" moment as Oprah would put it, and I realized how strong (most of the time) and just different I am today than I once was. 

We all go through different struggles and obstacles in life, but we are all the same in that when we step back- a lesson was learned. We were changed in some way by what we endured in life. We learn compassion from going through the rough times. We learn how pure happiness feels when we are going through a "cloud 9" time in life. I am making it a priority to start journaling again and to write down something I learn each day. Something that makes me think about my life and the lives of others. I want to continue to learn from others because we are all on our own journey & never know what we can learn from hearing about another persons walk through life... I wonder what tomorrow will teach me?  I know it will be something that will continue to keep my eyes open and my feet moving forward! On that note....

Right now...I learned that it is again 4 min past midnight and my NY resolution is to control my late night insomnia...so goodnight all! 
Hillary

Humor.

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Humor. Laughter. Jokes. Pranks. (nice ones, not mean scary ones)... My favorite topic. We have all heard the saying a million trillion times... "Laughter is the best medicine". Yep, it sure is for me. I get this silly, twisted, sometimes dry sense of humor from... I think the mailman. No one else in my immediate family has the same sense of humor as me....although they pinkie promise me that I am the funniest person they know. They lie to make me feel accepted. It's cool. I understand. Not everyone can laugh at just about any situation. I can. It can be a wonderful thing. It can also get me in all sorts of trouble and shenanigans  I would not change my sense of humor for a million buckaroos. My ability to find humor on a daily basis gets me through those "I want to hide under the covers on my amaze-balls memory foam bed" days that we all have- and if you do not have those types of days in your life, please insert your name next to "liar" in the dictionary :).... Side note: I just had to add amaze-balls to my online dictionary because I am sick and tired of Chrome telling me it is not proper grammar. Listen, I know no one wants to read blog posts full of grammar errors...but be forewarned, there will be grammar errors on occasion here. Feel free to be the grammar police for me...but I really enjoy making up words so I won't always care. Classy? Nope. I didn't start this blogging jazz to be classy, I started it to be 150% ME. I love writing. I love sharing stories. I love love love reading other blogs, and I LOVE TO LAUGH... and that is why I am blogging. So I will get all into my jibber jabber at times and not put the i before the e except after c..if you get my drift. I want to share some fun things about myself here...and link up and share with others... tonight I desperately needed to laugh...and boom- Humor is posted. 

Top 5 ways I end up laughing so hard I am shedding tears:

1. Modern Family. Enough said.

2. Browsing through the someecards app on my Android. Some are just wrong!! So dang funny.

3. Tripping. I trip over my own feet at least 3 times a day. In public. Then I laugh at myself. Can you picture it? Not classy. 

4. Ellen. Ellen D. NEEDS to be my BFF. I can't get through a minute without laughing. Love her. ps- if you don't follow her producer Andy Lassner on Twitter, you must. He is the corn to my cob when it comes to humor. 

5. Sitting in any meeting/service/function when laughing is completely inappropriate. That is the worst. Ya know...you have a small joke with someone, not even funny, and then you can not get yourself under control and end up making a complete joke of yourself....yeah, that would be me. 

So there ya have it. Always remember... "you can have all the mayo in the world, but ya can't make chicken salad outta chicken crap!"

Til manana,

Hillary